This post is a little different, because it’s about ME. Meet the person behind the lens with 10 facts you might not have known..
It is nearly the end of the year. And as such, it’s a time for reflection not only from a personal perspective, but also from a business standpoint. It’s been an interesting process, running a small business as my sole source of income. Balancing raising little kids (who are thankfully that much closer to both being in Elementary school) with work commitments…
One of my biggest personal goals for 2018 was to travel. Without the boys. Now, I love my family and all, but any time we go somewhere, it's not exactly a relaxing experience. So the next chance I got, I asked my sister if she wanted to go somewhere with me. Turns out, she's been thinking about going to Iceland but needed someone to drive (she lives in NYC and never bothered getting a driver's license). I wholeheartedly volunteered…
The biggest mistake most people make on vacation is to photograph everything - to have the camera at the ready all day. I have a simple padded insert for my beloved Everlane backpack and that's where I store it until it's needed. I learned long ago that nobody wants a camera in their face for the entire vacation. And tolerance for waiting while I take a photo goes down exponentially with every minute. So I try my best to keep photography to a minimum when we're supposed to be enjoying a restful and exciting time together.
I also have have to manage my expectations.
Because I'm a so-called "professional photographer", my bar for vacation photos is pretty high. I want every image to be artistic and beautiful. In reality, that doesn't actually happen. I want the types of photos I produce for my clients, only that too is impossible, because the point of a vacation is NOT to get family photos - it's to play and discover and to walk around in the middle of the day when the sun is harsh and awful and hot.. or you decide to hike 3 miles over some crazy wooden boardwalk and huge rocks and you're too busy focusing on survival (and sweating) to even consider taking photos. Nobody wants to pause to pose for the camera!
The one time we actually did go out during the golden hour, it was our last night in Maine and we got bitten by mosquitos and almost didn't make it back to the car before the sun disappeared completely. So there's that.
There are only a few things you can really count on:
- You can get that perfect shot of your 2-year old walking away from you, pretty much any time you want.
- Nobody will ever actually look at the camera. And trying to get more than 2 people looking at the camera at the same time is like not gonna happen no matter how much you wave your arms and yell in their general direction.
- You will have to sprint to catch up with your family every 2 minutes.
- You will get lots of practice aiming the camera and pressing the shutter with one hand while giving your toddler a piggy back ride.
- You will forget to actually be in the photos yourself. (Unless you force your hubby to take some photos of you and your boys literally at the last possible moment before you leave and then settle on one where you don't look completely horrible)
And Maine was absolutely gorgeous. We hiked Acadia National Forest trails and stayed in a lovely little cabin. I read every day. And the kids complained only some of the time. We didn't get any perfect family photos, but I did try to capture what we did almost every day, even if that meant photographing my lovely family walking away, and leaving me behind, with my camera.
You are now officially 2 years old, although I felt like you were two for several months now. It could have been the constant tantrums, the end-of-the-world tears, or the bossy demands that made me feel that way.. or the fact that you're understanding more and more, starting to say "thank you mommy" and "please" (you know I can't deny you anything when you do), or the squeeeezes, kisses, and hugs you give me when I ask.
You are turning into a boy with every passing day. You're always thinking of others - you're learning to share, you try so hard to clean up your messes, and you actually put away toys when asked. You request your backpack every time we go to pick up your big brother from school. You eat constantly throughout the day, and if I'm lucky, you will actually consume all of your dinner once in a while (and after about an hour at the table). Your favorite seems to be pasta.. and pizza of course. And you definitely love apple sauce, which you eat about four times a day.
You get numbers. You can count to ten, which is often followed by "Jump!". You're starting to understand shapes, but you still confuse your colors. You call your favorite yellow shirt "red" (pictured below), which I dare say, is inaccurate. You adore rocks and often pick one up when we walk outside. You then throw them, even if we're indoors and the rock happens to be huge. You cried once when I made you leave a large boulder outside. Your big brother covered it with snow so you would leave it behind - he made it a little snow house.
You've completely appropriated my iPad mini. Your favorite shows are Umi Zoomi, Mikey Mouse Club House, and Animal Mechanicals. Your favorite activity seems to be to pull out all the DVDs and the remote control batteries, and spread them out on the living room floor (if we're lucky, you will also throw them all around the house). You climb on the kitchen island, with your whole body, to find little treasures you're not supposed to have. You scream "Oh! Find it!!" every time you get your hands on something good. You yell "Catch!" when you throw things at my face, usually when it's already too late.
You demand my house keys to open doors and press all elevator buttons. You never willingly hold my hand.. unless you sometimes do, and it totally melts my heart. I walk, holding on to your little fingers, so proud and so thankful that you are mine.
Christmas 2014, my well-meaning husband gifted me a copy of Marie Kondo's The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up. The book spoke directly to my practical mindset and filled me with a desire to get rid of absolutely everything that wasn't loved or essential. About 6 months later (no thanks to a full-time corporate job and 2 children), I finally had my pared down household with approximately 65% less STUFF than before.
Which brings me to some of the most precious items we have to go through during a full-on-tidying of the home.. photographs.
I certainly had too many photos. Lots that we got from daycare. Plenty that I've printed over the years. I didn't need so many, and I wasn't enjoying them in that state of clutter anyway. So I sought better ways of displaying, storing, and keeping photographs in my home.. ways that fit into Marie Kondo's philosophy of keeping a home tidy and beautiful.
Marie Kondo advises making an album of all the precious photographs for yourself, or for a family member, to enjoy.. but I went a step beyond that since scrapbooking isn't really my style. (I also have commitment issues, but that's another story.) So I put together 5 of my favorite way to store and display photographs that are both stylish, pretty to behold, and tidy.. because.. well... because it's important.
1. Yearly Family Photo Books or Albums
There is a definite advantage to making a printed family book of images every year.. or decade (up to you!). Photo books are typically more compact than slide-in photo albums, and usually a lot more beautiful to behold. You can have a neatly organized shelf full of these "Family Yearbooks" and it will look gorgeous, and neat.
A book that contains a full year's (or several years) worth of images is a lot more meaningful that individual albums people often purchase from photographers.. it tells the full story. Don't get me wrong, those gorgeous professional photo albums are totally drool-worthy, but if you're trying to cut back on stuff in your home, it makes a lot more sense to consolidate everything into one book. Just be sure to get the digital images or extra copies your professional photos so you can include them in your family's yearbook/album.
Taking the time to put one of these books together is tough, and it's a lot of effort.. but I think it's worth it if you're the type of person that really enjoys this way of looking at images. There are so many options out there, but I really found that Artifact Uprising does the best job is terms of printing quality and ease of use.. and they have options for just about every budget. Win, win!
2. LARGE FRAMED PRINTS
A collection of small frames can look stunning, but it can also look cluttered (and sometimes askew). Large, oversized, impactful images on the wall can add a personal touch to your interiors and look tidy. It's also less stuff to clean.
With frames, quality matters. If you want the ability to change the print down the line (meaning the frame is more of a long-term investment), be sure to select an option that allows you to do that. Solid wood frames are best, of course. An 8-ply mat and quality printing is a must for an upscale look. And plexiglass is better to have around kids than the traditional glass option.
But it's hard finding a really amazing vendor for frames. So, I was absolutely thrilled, after years of searching, to stumble upon Saw & Mitre. Their frames are priced to match the quality and the craftsmanship, and there is no way I'm getting a frame from anywhere else.. but there are other, cheaper, options out there, too.
3. A Memory Box
I have one of these for each of my children. Throughout the year, I print a few meaningful photos and place them in their special memory box for safe storage. When the kids grow up, they will have a perfectly curated collection of images from their childhood all ready to go.
This method is perfect for me because I don't have to commit to an album's worth of images, the boxes can be stored in a drawer or displayed on a shelf, and I can also include special keepsakes like ticket stubs and small drawings. It's the perfect KonMari approach for storing precious printed photographs without taking up too much space or causing unnecessary clutter.
You can use anything as a keepsake box, find some wonderful handmade wood options on Etsy, or invest in one when you work with a professional photographer. Just make sure the box won't damage the photo paper during storage, and you're set.
4. A Photo Display Stand
A photo stand with numerous photographs has so many advantages over the traditional arrangement of tabletop frames. There is less dusting and cleaning involved (can you tell that I really hate dusting?). You can swap photographs for a fresh new look anytime you wish. Everything is tidy and in one designated spot.. not to mention that these look very stylish. It's also really fun for kids to sort through the photos (although my toddler likes it a bit too much, if you know what I mean) and you can easily refresh the images by ordering additional prints.
I have one of these wood stands from Artifact Uprising, but I also include a custom-made walnut stand with all of my Collections. I think it's important to have a way to easily display images without the need to invest in (or clean) frames, and really nothing beats the joy of seeing a new photograph in a familiar spot, am I right?
While I'm sure any photographer you ask will insist that nothing beats a printed image, but maybe you just don't want that much paper around. Maybe you have hundreds of photos you'd like to keep, just not all at once, and in your home. You can, in fact, keep your photos safe and sound online, if you follow a few simple guidelines.
First of all, the primary place you keep your photos should be easy to organize, live in the cloud (or a personal server that is accessible online), and not degrade the quality of your images (sorry, Facebook). I personally love, and use, flickr. I keep most of my images private and share them only with family, who can download and print photos of their grandchildren all they like without bugging me. I can access my photos from anywhere and download a full-resolution copy whenever I want. I do keep them organized and neat and don't post any that aren't worth keep to begin with. If you have a hard-drive full of repeat, blurry, or unflattering photos, you'll need to go through them first and select only the ones you'd like to keep (and yes, delete the rest).
But you also need a backup. Because digital media is transitory, prone to corruption, and can become obsolete within a few years. External hard drives, a second online backup, and keeping a copy on your computer, are all good options. You just can't rely on one place to keep your digital images safe and sound for more than 5 years (or even 5 minutes in some cases).
The ideal, of course, is to print and display your favorite photos, keeping the rest digital (safely). It's important to enjoy images in the truly best form of printed photographs, whether they're hanging on the wall, displayed on your desk, or printed in a book. Like Marie Kondo's methodology, you need to hold these precious objects in your hand so you can feel the bond that connects us to our memories.. and, it's a lot easier on the eyes than starring at a screen, too.
I hope your found this post useful and fun.. if you have a favorite way of displaying or storing your photos, please don't hesitate to leave a comment and let me know!